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Foodie Get-together

October 7, 2011

Finally got the schedule of some friends from different countries together! I don’t normally throw birthday parties anymore (unlike the wild bashes I threw when I was younger). A party I would entail preparing for a couple of days and cooking an entire day and I didn’t want to get stressed out on my birthday week. I just wanted to treat myself to a chillax time at home. I thought, “why not host a potluck party to introduce our favorite friends from different countries to each other?” We thought it would be fun to ask guests to bring dishes from their countries of origin and they all agreed! It would be a good ice breaker as well.

DIGITAL  INVITATIONS

So sent a quick digital invitation. Image below from HGTV via Pinterest. I used Photoshop to add the details and used Buddmo Jiggler font. By the way if you wanna print out the invitation itself, it’s a free printable! Click here to download!

TD’S  SIGNATURE  SANGRIA

The night before TD made his special Sangria and I prepared 2 desserts. The Sangria is for the Spanish heritage of TD, whose mom taught him how to make Sangria. It’s a secret recipe that they both know how to do without any real recipe at all… I guess you can say it’s in the blood! =P 

HOMEMADE  DESSERTS

I made Banana Bread and Chocolate Peanut Butter Mousse Cups. Banana Bread is like my signature baked item and a popular Filipino dessert (Best one is Red Ribbon’s Banana Crunch). It’s comes out more moist and delicious after 1-2 days in cling-wrap inside the ref. I also made the shells and mousse for the Chocolate Peanut Butter Mousse Cups ahead. This had nothing to do with the night’s theme, but Reese’s are my favorite and not available here.  (My blog friend, Starlet even brought some for me when she was home for vacay here!) I thought it would be a treat for people who missed it too. Will post the recipe for this tomorrow!

OUR  DIPLO  HOME

I had to prune some of our plants so I used 2 of the discarded leaves on the pots by the front door. (Check out my Umbra Lettro Brushed-Aluminum Letter Organizer with key hooks from MakeRoom Manila & also available at ACE Gandaria Jakarta)

Since we usually request guest to leave their shoes by the door (to minimize the amount of dirt/dust that comes in our home and a normal practice among friends in Jakarta) I provided some clean hotel slippers for their use. This is another thing I take home from our hotel stays. 

I also left some more hotel slippers (the colored/printed ones this time) by our balcony for those people who smoke so that they use a different set of slippers in our dusty balcony. I made laminated signs which make my job as a host easier. Guests appreciated it! (I laminated them so I could reuse them in the future)

Check out my work-in-progress DIY photowall in the hallway. To highlight it I placed a flower arrangement beneath it.

GUEST  BATHROOM

I love the beach and was going for a beachy feel in our guest bathroom.

In place of my two boxes/storage boxes which were damaged when TD flooded our guest bathroom, I moved some of our modular Dunia shelves in temporarily.

(L) Clock to allow guest to see the time while in the loo. (R) Coconut scented candle in a coconut husk (from Chic Mart Kemang) in foreground with polished shell from Phuket in the background.

Placed some rolled towels in a square capiz vase from Shell Museum Bali for guest to dry their hands on after washing (sorry that was all the towels left when I remembered to take a pic!).

Guests can throw used towels in the fishing basket I bought in the Artisan’s Table’s open house which I bought  specifically for this purpose. I decorated it with a sack cloth and placed a laminated sign on it.

STAIN  STATION

I set up a stain station in the guest bathroom for people to use if they accidentally spilled something on themselves. I included the ff:

  • Paper towels
  • Cotton buds
  • Talcum powder
  • isopropyl alcohol
  • Stain removing spray – I used Stain Tech (esp. for wine stains) from ACE Hardware
  • foldable lint remover (for those who cuddled too much with DiploDog & got fur on themselves)
* I ended up needing the stain kit at the end of the night, because I got a drop of wine on my white top! This is a must for clumsy people like me! Hehe!

THE  BAR

For our bar, I used the Entertaining Crib Sheet  on  page 148 of Real Simple Solutions as a guide for cocktail-party quantities and supplies. (You guys should check out that book, it’s awesome!) We had the ff:

  • Bottle opener
  • Cocktail spoon (not pictured)
  • Swizzle sticks
  • Sangria pitcher + wine glasses + wine tags (Fred Winelines)
  • Scotch glasses + glass bands ( I used Fred beer bands)
  • Swizzle sticks (I used Fred’s High Five Low Five)
  • Cocktail shaker
  • Jigger or Shot glass (I like my clear shot glass with measurement for ounce found in ACE)
  • Peeler for twists
  • Cutting board
  • Paring knife
  • Cocktail napkins
  • Juiced lemon (not pictured)
  • Lime wedges (not pictured)
  • I laminated and posted these on the wall using 3M command strips to make it easier for guests to experiment and try different drinks. Click on the links below to print out!
    • Available alcoholic drinks
    • Cocktail mixing cheat sheet (for easy self-service & bartender wannabes)
  • Soda water
  • Tonic Water
  • Cola and diet cola
  • Sprite and diet Sprite
  • Different juices (esp. for non-alcohol drinking guests)
Check out the Fred beer bands and Winelines in action. I requested our guests to use it since we had limited glasses and they were game to use it! It really helped because we didn’t run out of glasses! =D *TIP: Put them on before placing drinks on the glasses to avoid spills.

SEATING AND TABLE TOPS

Aside from our 6 seater dining set, we also had a bench on the side, which I flanked with 2 boxes from the flooded bathroom.  I  fixed the boxes with some Scotch Super77 and new material! They  were there to serve as extra table tops for our guests.

I wanted to place the names of the dishes + the country the dish is from so that our guests would know what they were eating. I printed it out with a cute font on thick cream card stock, cut them out then improvised by using our silver place card holders, which was wonderful a gift from the MIL (She had it made-to-order from Baguio, Philippines – a place famous for silver)

I also used small trays with a shell to weigh down the napkins instead of normal napkin holders. I think they look prettier. One for the dining table and one for the coffee table. What do you think?

HOSTING  TASKLIST

Right before guests arrived I taped up the rest of my To Do List in a corner for my reference and so that if anyone offered to help, I know the tasks that I need help with. Normally I just blank out and refuse help, but I think it’s fun getting guests involved too.  Click on the photo below to enlarge

THE  FOOD

Otak-otak (appetizer made of fish and starch) with spicy sauce from Indonesia. 

Pempek with vinegar dip. It is an Indonesian appetizer which is basically fish balls. The dip tasted more like kecap manis or sweet soy sauce for me. 

Beef satay with peanut sauce, lontong (compressed rice) and beef crackling.

  • 1 Chicken Pie (England)
  • 2 Vegetarian Ginataan (Philippines)
  • 3 Fresh Lumpia or spring rolls with 4 Achara (Philippine style pickled condiment) and 5 Lumpia dip (Philippines)
  • 6  Kway Teow (Brunei)
  • 7 Chicken curry (Myanmar)

TD and I ordered our favorite Pinoy dish: LECHON to add some pork into the mix for those of us who ate pork. If you would like to order lechon in Jakarta you can get in touch with this number: +62 818 065 48852 and ask for Babi Guling La Filipina (they also have Balinese and HK versions). They deliver with charge.

I made sure to label the dishes properly so that guests knew what was what. To make sure that those with religious restrictions are comfortable knowing what they are eating.

For desserts I made 1 Chocolate Peanut Butter Cups (because I miss Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups and they aren’t available here in Jakarta), Andy made 2 pie and our Indonesian friends brought 3 martabak and 4 pukis. Oh and I also made 5 banana bread. Will post the peanut butter cups recipe next week! Watch out for it! 

It was so much fun sharing yummy food and great company. Our guests truly outdid themselves by brining the best versions of the dishes popular in their respective countries – whether bought or lovingly cooked at home. I was impressed. (I still cannot believe Andy made that deliciously creamy chicken pie! Good job!)

THE  GUESTS

I don’t know if you can distinguish the guest from the Philippines, Indonesia, Myanmar and Brunei  from each other. Too bad our Thai, Japanese and American friends couldn’t make it!

I consider these guys honorary pinoys!

Wait one person’s missing… there’s B by the Bar! LOL!

There was so much food left over so when everyone was done eating and just enjoying drinks, I had my maid pack everything up in small ziplock bags so that each guest can bring home a couple dishes from another country by the end of the night.  I wanted to extend the “sharing” of each others home country dishes to the take away bags. =)

THANK  YOU

That was a wonderful night with good friends and good food. I hope we get to have another one! Capped it off by sending guests digital thank you notes. I wanted to send out handwritten notes, but I thought digital ones would be more environmentally friendly since handwritten notes would have to be sent via car – and I don’t wanna add to Jakarta traffic needlessly!

Envelop and card image were found here. Idea for the card message was taken from here. If you wanna order the real hand-painted card, you can order it from Smythson of Bond Street.

I wish I could have invited all our friends but as it was there were 15 out of the 20 people expected and we were already a full house! It was a little bit crazy for me as a newbie dinner party host. =P I used to organize events and parties for hundreds of people with TV coverage when I started my marketing career in PR. But those parties have nothing on hosting a dinner party at your own house hehe!

I hope all the guests enjoyed the party as much as we did! And I hope you readers liked the pictures and got some ideas for party hosting as well! I definitely need more practice in hosting duties and one day hope to be as fabulous and effortless as my MIL in hosting these things! It’s definitely a skill I must master as a diplo wife! =)

Would love to hear your thoughts and comments!

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Comments

  1. Laurie Atilano says

    October 7, 2011 at 2:46 AM

    Hi TDW!! is that Dr. J alcohol that you have in the guest bathroom?

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      October 7, 2011 at 2:58 AM

      Hi Laurie, yes that small container is Doctor J, however I think it’s been refilled with Green Cross isopropyl alcohol already because it’s long been consumed. How come? =) We bring in our isopropyl alcohol from the Philippines because the alcohol here in Indonesia is more like Agua Oxinada and too strong to use like alcohol.

      Reply
  2. Laurie Atilano says

    October 7, 2011 at 5:12 AM

    I recognized the bottle. My husband’s family is the manufacturer of Dr. J alcohol so let me know if you need. It also comes in a pump dispenser if you like, guests can come and sanitize themselves upon arrival or in your bathroom too. we can send some to you in manila if you like. i heard about alcohol in indonesia…we’ve had a number of queries for export!
    Really love your blog and all your tips!!! 🙂 thanks for sharing 🙂

    Reply
  3. Mary Ann Wiley says

    October 7, 2011 at 10:16 PM

    Even though we have left Indonesia, I really enjoy your messages. The party you had sounds fantastic. We are hosting a party for our neighborhood in Fort Worth, Texas Sunday, and I found your ideas helpful. Thanks so much for sharing!

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      October 8, 2011 at 12:33 AM

      So happy you enjoy them Mary Ann. It’s my pleasure. And thanks for your comment – it’s a big deal for me coming from professional party caterer like you! Wow you just made my day! =D Enjoy your party this Sunday!

      Reply
  4. Didi says

    October 9, 2011 at 6:02 PM

    Ohhh this was the kway teow you were raving about 🙂 I’d also like the otak otak recipe if that’s possible. one of my favorite stuff from a malaysia trip 🙂

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      October 10, 2011 at 6:02 AM

      Hi Didi, I wish I could also share hat with you but my indonesian friends bought it from a store. For the potluck w had guests could make or buy the dishes. They got the best otak-otak they knew of and it was indeed yummy! I’m still waiting for the recipe of my friend. Will post it as soon as I get it.

      Reply
  5. Chuzai Living says

    October 11, 2011 at 8:19 AM

    I am so sorry that I missed this fun party!!!! I would’ve love to be there. You’re so amazingly organized and thorough. I wish I had a bit of your talent! I love the way you decorate. The frame decor on the wall is beautiful. Good job!! The food looks amazing, too. Happy Belated Birthday!!! May your new year bring much prosperity and happiness to you and TD!! Hugs xoxo Kaho

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      October 26, 2011 at 8:53 AM

      I wish you were there Kaho! I was excited to add some Japanese or American food to the mix! Gosh we really should do something like this in the future yeah? I really wanted you to finally meet our friends! Hahaha you are too humble about your talents Kaho… you have so much style and are already a decorating guru to many of your blog readers! Check you out on your Koi and Livingetc gig! Go you!!

      Reply
  6. Poker Goddess says

    October 17, 2011 at 5:56 AM

    Wow! I am soooo impressed Diplowife! You are a domestic goddess du jour! And what a beautiful home. You are so mindful of the little details and that’s what I love! Keep it up, thank goodness for your blog, this will jump start my wifey skills to a whole new level. <3

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      October 17, 2011 at 6:23 AM

      Thanks so much sweety! I’m glad you think so!! That means a lot for me! I wish you had a blog too sweety! I’m sure you would have a lot to share too and it would be a great way to keep me up to date hehe!

      Reply
  7. janice says

    December 9, 2011 at 8:16 AM

    i’m so proud of you! i love how domesticated you got! hahahaha. for a moment there i was in utter shock cause i thought you cooked everything you served. 😀

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      December 9, 2011 at 8:22 AM

      Hahaha… I may be domesticated but I have no superpowers dear! =P LOL! I’m glad we did pot luck so I could focus on making the other aspects of the party more special! =)

      Reply
  8. sakthi says

    June 16, 2012 at 3:04 AM

    hi DW could you tell me where to get the food label holder in indonesia.

    U r the perfect party host.

    Reply
    • diplomaticwife says

      June 20, 2012 at 9:16 AM

      Sorry sakthi, I have not seen food label holders in Indonesia. The ones I used on this post are actually name holders for formal dinners, which I then used to hold dish names for the buffet. What I can suggest is that you go to AKSARA bookstore (you can go on google to check for their different locations) and buy those cute photo holders (like this or this) and use them instead.

      You can also just print out tent cards that you don’t need a holder for, like this or this.

      Here are some other creative DIY ideas for dish labels that don’t need an actual holder. Just some creativity (and maybe some sticks, glue or ribbon)
      – http://hoosierhomemade.com/backyard-fun-and-easy-diy-food-labels/
      – http://blog.stickeryou.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/food-label-sticker-buffet-decor-party-custom.jpg

      Hope this helps! AKSARA is one of my favorite stores in Jakarta and you should definitely check it out! =)

      Reply

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